I used to think I could "fit" kids into my life. You know, my perfectly ordered, and orderly, life. I even wrote articles about it. Now, four kids later, I've had to do a few reality checks. I'm the one doing most of the fitting these days (not into my old jeans, mind you. It took nine months to outgrow them, surely I'm due more than two months to get back to where I started).

Thankfully, words online can be rethought and revisited. Last week Boundless published my new and revised vision for how we can make room in our lives for babies.